Worst of the Evils: Vol.3

Situation 1

You are in a relationship that at first is hot and heavy. You are sexually and emotionally fulfilled and as far as you can tell things are going smoothly, but as time goes on you notice your partner no longer seems all that interested in the sexual side of your relationship. You talk to them about this, and you communicate your concerns, and your frustration with the lack of sex. Your partners responds in a nut shell is " I'm just not feeling nowadays". A week goes by, then a month, then several months without sex, at most you get is mutual masturbation. You feel you have reached your breaking point. Emotionally you still feel strongly for the person.
What do you do?

A) I feel this situation justifies me getting some on the side
B) I feel this situation will cause me to break up with my partner.
C) I feel I need to have another talk with my partner to tell them how I am feeling.
D) Just continue to wait until your partner is feeling sexual again, if it happens it happens, if not...

Situation 2

You are in a relationship that at first is hot and heavy. You are sexually and emotionally fulfilled and as far as you can tell things are going smoothly. As time goes on you notice your partner no longer seems all that interested in the sexual side of your relationship. You talk to them about this, and you communicate your concerns, and your frustration with the lack of sex. Your partners responds in a nut shell is " I'm just not feeling nowadays". A week goes by, then a month, then several months without sex, at most you get is mutual masturbation. You feel you have reached your breaking point. One night you finally breakdown and decide to hop online in search of "companionship". You start chatting with a potential piece for the night and before long y'all decide to hook up. You arrange to meet at The W hotel in room 112 at midnight. They said they will answer the door naked. You get to the room and when they open the door your are shocked to discover the person you been chatting with is your partner. The same partner that has been holding out on sex with you.
What do you do?

A) Since This is such a complicated situation that I want you (the reader) to tell me in your words what would you do. *By the way all these situations I write are based on true scenarios*

Situation 3

You are in a relationship that at first is hot and heavy. You are sexually and emotionally fulfilled and as far as you can tell things are going smoothly. As time goes on your partner notices you are no longer all that interested in the sexual side of your relationship. They talk to you about this, and they communicate their concerns, and their frustration with the lack of sex. Your response in a nut shell is " I'm just not feeling it nowadays". A week goes by, then a month, then several months without sex, at most you do is mutual masturbation. Your partner feels they have reached their breaking point. They love, and would never do anything to hurt you, but they feel if you are not willing to satisfy the sexual part of the relationship then they (by default) should be able to have something going on on the side. They discuss this with you...
What do you do?

A) Since This is such a complicated situation that I want you (the reader) to tell me in your words what would you do. *By the way all these situations I write are based on true scenarios*

Situation 4

You are in a relationship with the man of your dreams. You are emotionally fulfilled and as far as you can tell things are going smoothly except for one issue... both of y'all are TOPS. At first this wasn't an issue. You guys found ways of having great sex without the need for penetration. As time goes on though these things no longer fill the sexual appetite of either you or your partner. This soon causes frustration within the relationship and it feels as if it's only a matter of time before one of you decide to end the relationship. Your partner sits you down for a talk, and tells you he has come up with a solution to y'all problem. He thinks that since the only major issue with the relationship is the fact neither of y'all get fucked that the simple solution is to bring a full-time bottom within the relationship so y'all can continue to be "emotionally stable", but still be able to get some ass when it's needed.
What do you do?

A) Negro! Have you lost your damn mind?! Hell naw.
B) That's actually a good idea, and I am willing to do it for the sake of our relationship.
C) I am okay with that, but just a 3rd for sex, not to be an actual life partner of ours.
D) If we truly loved each other we wouldn't have to bring in a 3rd party. We would be willing to at least make an effort to be penetrated because we want to make each happy.