Some of My Turn-Offs

* Stupid Niggas

* Ugly in physical and mental Niggas

* "Sup Nigga" Niggas

* Thug Niggas

* Broke and won't get a job Niggas

* Confused got a wife but take dick in the ass Niggas

* Lying Niggas

* Desperate Niggas

* Only want sex but claim "looking 4 friends" Niggas

* The "no fats no fems" Niggas

* The "I'm god's gift to niggas" but aint got shit Niggas

* The Niggas that use the word Nigga Niggas

I could go on literally all day but you get the point

The Big Reveal- Vol. 2: My Favorite Things

I think it is so boring when people introduce themselves in the same way and give all about themselves away in one shot. As I did with revealing my name, I will SLOWLY reveal some of my favorite things. Once again I will present it in my own unique way so that y'all won't be bored (I hope)

Today's Fave: My Favorite Cartoon

This is a list that can go on and on, and thanks to youtube I have found one that I thought I would never see again. It's called "David the Gnome" and I want y'all to enjoy this first episode.

A Symbol

A ring on your finger must be a magnet for curiosity. At least that's the case when it comes to me. Never a week goes by that I don't get asked (usually by a female) "Are you married?" My answer is usually yes, and that ends it. Sometimes the truly nosey people, church members & co-workers usually, go a step further and ask details. Things such as what's HER name, where did you meet HER, any kids, etc. I usually put them in their place and say mind yo own damn business. Sometimes tho' I must admit I like to get a rise out of people and cause controversy so I would say well my HUSBAND'S name is Larry. Jaws usually drop to the floor faster than a 100IB anvil, I love it, lol. People automatically associate a ring on the left hand with the legally binding, contractual agreement known as marriage. What our rings mean to us (The mister and I) is a symbol that we have bond that can't be broken, a love that is eternal, and that we want to express that to everyone. I would not trade the six years I have had with this man for anything in the world. Even tho' I personally feel I haven't always been the best husband, he knows he's the only one for me. He knows me better than I know myself sometimes. He is my Angel. He is my Rock. He is my All. I truly believe he saved my life, and when I slid that ring on his finger I wanted him to know that I proclaim him to be mine as I am his. Whenever I feel down, or feel upset I simply look at my left hand and the sun starts shining again. The ring for me is a symbol of joy.

The Big Reveal- Vol. 2: My Favorite Things

I think it is so boring when people introduce themselves in the same way and give all about themselves away in one shot. As I did with revealing my name, I will SLOWLY reveal some of my favorite things. Once again I will present it in my own unique way so that y'all won't be bored (I hope)

Today's Fave: My Favorite Music

I LOVE music. I remember I used to spend entire paychecks at my local record store. Now thanks to the internet those days are over. I love going on iTunes, or different blogs and yahoo groups, and myspace pages to keep up on what's new. When it comes to my favorites I am all over the place. On my Ipod I have everything from A Tribe called Quest to Mozart and everything in between. I just listen to what sounds good to me. Below is a song from a album I have on rotation at the moment. Enjoy!

Jam of the Week: Beyonce "If I Were A Boy"

The real reason Ciara's new album "Fantasy Ride" got pushed back?... She, and everyone else knows that when B comes out she simply dominates the charts. With joints like this that show a different side (a much more mature side) of her, and the fact that she continues to grow with each album if I were Ciara, or any other R&B chick for that matter I would fall back too. I love this video, and the song is awesome to. I am glad to see she is doing new forms of music on this album. I thought the last album had to many "Get Me Bodied" type tracks on it.

Her New album title "I Am...Sasha Fierce" comes out November 18th

P.S.
The brotha playing her boyfriend in the video is super fine, DAMN!

Sight

To continue my thoughts on the topic I started in my post called TASTE, I want to explore the next human sense SIGHT. What is it about seeing a big ol' black piece that gets brothas off? I'm not just talking about bottom guys either. I am talking about most if not all gay brothas. I have couple of friends who are tops (as far as I know anyway), but they are constantly looking at pictures and videos of big dick guys. I asked them if they are supposed to be tops how come they don't obsess over a nice round phat ass the same way they drool over a nice dick. Their response was the same. "I like seeing a man, and fucking a man that has a big dick." I have to admit personally I love fuckin' a guy that has a nice size piece as well. It's something empowering about making a brotha ride me while his Mandingo is bouncing up and down on my stomach, but then again I am a verse guy so I have a valid excuse why I like big ones.

I want to know why my top friends simply like "looking" at big dicks. I had one of them tell me a guy can't even come in his house unless he's 8 inches or better.... remember this is my friend who's a "TOP" saying this! This has me scratching my head. Either they are secretly bottoms or a new breed of gay called " Dick Obsessive Tops" (I made up this classification just now, lol). Another friend of mine who is a total top (whatever that means) is the kind of "true top" I think about when I define that role. He is OBSESSED with ass. He once told me the brotha can be missing his dick altogether as long as the ass is phat, firm, and can take a pounding. He is not into dick at all. I have another "top" friend that goes to strip clubs, and only gives money to the brothas with a nice dick. The phat booty brothas don't get his money which is weird to me.

So I am asking for y'all opinion. For those of you that admire the black pole. Why do you like the sight? I have been told so many damn times I have a "pretty dick", what constitutes a pretty dick? Can dick be ugly? If so someone email a picture of an ugly one, LOL. I need to know y'alls opinion.

The Big Reveal- Vol. 2: My Favorite Things

I think it is so boring when people introduce themselves in the same way and give all about themselves away in one shot. As I did with revealing my name, I will SLOWLY reveal some of my favorite things. Once again I will present it in my own unique way so that y'all won't be bored (I hope)

Today's Fave: My Favorite Book
I am not a book guy, but if I have to say my favorite book ever is probably this one.

Book Plot: It is the story about a mother bird who knows her egg will be in her nest where she left it, so she leaves him alone to go and get something for him to eat. The baby bird hatches. He doesn't understand where his mother is so he goes to look for her. In his search, he asks a kitten, a hen, a dog, and a cow if they are his mother. They each say NO, and the adventure begins...